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Introducing anal to a nervous girl 12/23/2000
Most of the women that I have ever met were at least a little
curious about anal sex, if not secretly wanting to try it.
The problem is that, as we have grown up we have been taught
that the very idea of anything having to do with anal is strictly
taboo. <br>
That can be a tough hurdle to get over, especially if you
don't know how to present it properly to your lady who may
be ...
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186 Votes
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Butt Plug's CAN go all the way in! 12/10/1999
Be careful when playing with butt plugs! Even tho they have a large "flange" to prevent them from slipping up, into your anal passage,it can happen. It happened to me a year ago!
The unexpected trip to the ER was not pleasant--and while humiliation is a nice part of BDSM, explaining my problem to the nurse at the ER was definitely NOT easy. She had trouble controlling her urge to laugh. They ...
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87 Votes
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Food for Thought; Establishing Common (Acceptable) Grounds 3/18/1999
An Agreement of Sensual Dominance & submission.
I, (submissive), as a strong, devoted woman who has an ongoing commitment to (Dominant), have the desire to express my love and dedication to the man I love and adore and thereby enter into this agreement with a free mind and a devoted heart. I give the gift of complete ownership; my heart, my body, and my soul to (Dominant) as a vow of this ...
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4 Votes
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The Sciatic Nerve 2/7/1999
The Sciatic Nerve
It's not close to the skin. It is, actually, quite deep. It runs off the the lower portion of the spinal column, near the sacrum (the triangular shaped bone at the end of the spinal column) where the "small" of the back is (just above the butt). It exits the spinal cord on both sides, right and left, and travels downward, between the muscles of the butt, moving at an ...
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9 Votes
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SAFE, SANE, and CONSENTUAL 1/31/1999
As in the title
Safe: play safe always, don't put yourself in danger or in a dangerous situation, make sure you have someone else that KNOWS what is happening, where it is happening and WHO is involved. Make sure there is a SAFE WORD...a word that STOPS all play this is something newbie sub/slaves NEED to have as they explore.
SANE: it is great to have a fantasy, but keep it real and ...
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3 Votes
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Safety in D/s 1/3/1999
Safety Rules
The relationship between a dominant and a true submissive is both complex and rewarding
for both partners. To be successful a D/s relationship must be based on mutual trust and
respect. The dominant must be completely trustworthy and respect the needs and desires
of their submissive.
The submissive partner must respect and trust the dominant to accept without reservation ...
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6 Votes
,5.93 Score
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Safety.. Meeting a RL Dom or Domme for the First Time.. 1/2/1999
Safety Rules
The relationship between a dominant and a true submissive is both complex and rewarding for both
partners. To be successful a D/s relationship must be based on mutual trust and respect. The dominant
must be completely trustworthy and respect the needs and desires of their submissive.
The submissive partner must respect and trust the dominant to accept without reservation ...
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24 Votes
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The Use of Butt Plugs (and other anal toys) 10/25/1998
For many people, the usage of anal toys can be a most delicious feeling. If not careful, they can also cause injury. Two most important words related to anal play are, "Lube and slow". Since the anal cavity does not secrete natural lubrication and the membranes therein are quite subject to damage, plenty of lubrication is needed. There is never too much lubrication as a rule. Since the ...
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50 Votes
,8.66 Score
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